Allah swt definetly knows what is best for us and surely he has better outcome of these pains. i will kill my self or i will kill the man? (Related by Muslim), i pray allah makes you stronger in your faith and inshallah my reply helped in someway. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Guess Who? I love Allah and I am saddened that I can't enjoy long sujoods anymore. If you think now is bad, do you really want to the spend the rest of eternity in complete misery? Frankly speaking am a very simple man and very religious too..But am not sure why Allah elected that kind of girl in my life.She is bit elder than me and she is completely opposite to me.She never follows hijab.She discuss all the things of our nights with her friends.She just looking for my money.She don't want my parents and all.I am trying to chage her,but I can't.There are lot of things to tell,i don't know how to tell.I never show her the attitude that I am husband and u r wife like that.She never thinking to grab my heart.I am really very sad with my wife.I even not getting interest to touch her.since am looking for a best friend am not just looking for her body. inshaAllah you can find the solution too. Dear Muslim brothers and sisters pls tell me is there any wazifa or dua for death..??? We can never say Allah Will Forgive someone or He Will Not Forgive someone, but we can do what is in the boundaries of the Sharee'ah. Hope this helped. T you can contact me I'm here for you , cos no1 here cares to respond to my problems n help me! Trust that Allah will guide you through the dark times. No one knows their eternal fate. assalamu alaikum. Have you made preparation for it? Brothers i said i wish to suicide but i m not actually gonna try that. Truly, Allah Most High lovingly chose you out of millions to accept His guidance. I WANNA DIE .MY FAMILY IS VERY CRUEL. He knows what you are going to do but He didn't willed it for you to do it. Let me give u an example , please help me, Am from India Muslim Brother, I have Some Many Problem in my Life You Publish a Dua is Very Useful for me Jazakallah, Regards, maybe making dua could also lead to you having more willpower to do something as . i think it is also possible there is some kind of very indirect divine intervention that can occur. I think you'll find many of the articles to be very helpful, such as my most recent article: How to invite Allah's power and wisdom into your life, i cant tell any reason i hate this world so i want to die however it is haram to pray for death.oh allah do for me whats better keep me alive till i m happy and love the life. Ameen. It is said that even in war when u r losing a War and the enemies are run behind u and its time for Salah u have to offer it, So if one leave any Salah , then he should offer tahajud and ask allah for forgiveness. it is those who will be awarded blessings and mercy from their Lord; and it is those who are the guided ones." But wishing for death is hated by prophet Muhammad so after death, I do not want him (saw) to get angry on me. You had a choice to go forward into marriage with her or not. I am tired by asking him with love and with anger. . The third tradition, also from Imam Jafar as-Sadiq (a.s.) says, The Holy Prophet (S) was told that a Muslim has been killed and his corpse is lying on the street. please anyone who read this add me in your prayers for my forgivness. You gave me a life to live here..butwhat i did.ruined it.with lies..hateredbackbiting.cursingunlimited sins..gossips and many other wrong things which YOU do not like it. One of the benefits of reciting dua to make someone miss you is that it helps you make the person you love come back to you. Making du'a against someone is not permissible if the person did not oppress or unduly wrong one. The evidences of Allah's care for us is everywhere, and if we hang on to them, we can start to feel how valuable we really are no matter what anyone else treats us like. Or dost thou ask of them (O Muhammad) any tribute? Praising Allah as He deserves. So is left for you to choose where you want to enter. but i have decided one thing, i wont give up. If you think suicide will end your problems, you are wrong. Live your life. Know that the life of this world is only play, and idle talk, and pageantry, and boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children; as the likeness of vegetation after rain, whereof the growth is pleasing to the husbandman, but afterward it drieth up and thou seest it turning yellow then it becometh straw. What can be better if you can be a dweller of the Paradise? Its enough what i have done and i know that if i survive like this then i will be first person among human race to put inside HELL FIRE. I think im mentally ill, I literally cannot control temper and nearly killed my own sibling, my parents disowned me, i dont speak to anyone, i have no friends, connection with my siblings is gone, i have nothing. - have you done your salat? what do you do when ur tired of life and cant do better than giving up on life? but if the bad people are getting as much as the good get Hey i wonder if is any dua that can kill me because my parents send me to an islamic foundation to learn the religion and i enjoy learning but the problem is that we sleep 10 people or more in a room and my parents didnt know , + the people from here do not care if i sleep properly ,is very noisy here on day and night time and is hard to sleep , i lived here for almost 8 months and now i have big problems with deppression and i have every time dark circles ,so plese if someone know any dua that can kill me plese tell me ! A hadeeth to this effect has been narrated, but it is daeef (weak). His parents wont accept me because I am not Muslim, I chose my girl over Allah and am having a crisis of faith, Beaten and verbally abused all my life, now lost and hopeless, Father sexually abuses me, mother will not help, https://www.al-islam.org/greater-sins-volume-1-ayatullah-sayyid-abdul-husayn-dastghaib-shirazi/fifth-greater-sin-murder. ASAK, Well He probably loves out of us the ones that obey Him more Emir, read the comments already given, please. Oh allah , I was gonna suicide but i know that allah dont like it thats why i searched dua for dying .. Try your best to keep up your daily prayers and frequent remembrance of Allah - trust in Him to give you strength and hope again. You have to think as if you are in a hole and you need to climb out of it. I hate my life. Mohammed, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and explain the situation. i got sunk in negativity not just for myself but even for people around, even for almighty (Astagfirruah). Maybe the girl you love was forced to marry, maybe not. Stop all contact with that girl as she is a married woman. I'm sorry to hear about your very difficult situation. Allah doesn't exist for us, but we exist for Him. This question has been answered. No dear sometimes u have food but it doesn't give u happiness, U have family who donot accepts u, U have health just for few days and another painfull experience waiting for you you have home but nothing more than a prison and Islam huh do u beleive u can still conected to religion having all these odds in life. You must live a full life as he did, and struggle against your difficulties. Allah swt is created us and he is the owner of it. In times of trials praise Allah coz it means He loves u so much coz his testing ur faith, and He will not give trial or problem without solution. But i will tell you something, i promise you. So turn to Allah quickly in repentance for uttering such words, ask Him to make it easy for you to face these situations and to give you strength and say this du'aa which Allah commands the Prophet (peace be upon him) to say: Helping people brings a great feeling. I have so much to thank Allah for but I refused to see all that. Allahumdullilah, Allahumdullilah, Allahumdullilah for EVERYTHING, even for the problems. Allahu Akber. Now my respect in my friends and my family's respect in the society is zero. Allah wants you to live, that's why you are still alive. In the mean time, go to your kitchen, lit your gas stove and try to put your hands on it. The gatekeepers will say to them, "Have you been brought to account?" My revelations were recited unto you, but ye used to turn back on your heels, It always hurts when we can't be with the one we love. Its all about your attitude and how you approach what you have. The righteous predecessors used to be pleased when a hardship afflicted them, seeing it as a token of Allah's forgiveness and benevolence. I am realizing that people be it parents, your life partner, your friends, your siblings, your relatives etc. I am a Hindu in love with a Muslim guy . You are young and have so much ahead of you. actually i want to die now .. Allah(Swt) counts our efforts not just final outcome. When the Holy Prophet (S) and his companions reached the site of the murder, he enquired as to who the killer was.. Read the Qur'an, be not in ignorance of the Qur'an, use your life for Islam. Concerning your second question., Allah knows what is going to happen in the future, for example Allah knows (in his knowledge) what is going to happen to you in the next few minutes, in the next 10 yrs, next 20yrs etc and also He knows what would happen to you after you death.. do not give up hope. I turn 30 on the 7th july which might be eid day..in sha Allah i dont live to see it. 853, al-Haakim said it is sahih according to the conditions of al-Bukhari and Muslim). Eat healthily , exercise, do some volunteer work. may allah subhana tala helps you with all your problem. If you choose to offer your salah prayers and do rightous good deeds ordained by Allah, then paradise/jannah is for you. Suicide is Murder He said "It is only those who have knowledge among His servants that fear Allah. Allah guides whomever He wills. Sister, even though life feels horrible at the moment, it won't always feel this way. Its not over til the Trumpet is Blown Sin and Repentance in Islam, The Sin of Fornication and Adultery Part 1, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication Part 2, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication Part 3. As-salamu alaykum brother "America". Is it allowed in islam in order not todo a suicide atempt? Please remember me in your prayers . To live your life and find a way forward. Read this article on suicide and pray to ask Allah (swt) to help you heal and move on iA. The Messenger of Allah (sws) was not someone who gave up. Indeed it can feel difficult to face life when you're in a situation where few people show care and support for you, and when you often feel alone or alienated. As brother Munib has said, read the Quran and supplicate to Allah. May Allah ease your heart and guide you to the way forward. Hb, suicide will not solve your problems. Think and feel happy to know that everyrhing that happens to you in this life bad and good are ridding you od your sins. Do not speak to her, email her, text her, or look at her Facebook page. Or, even if a person has no rewards on their own merit, they may earn the rewards of others if they have been wronged by someone else, and that could affect your hereafter. JazakAllah. The best gift Allah give to someone is Islam. And then look for His reply, it could be the reassurance of a cool breeze on a hot day, or a new friend who wants to see you, or many other things. Maalik narrated that Saeed ibn al-Musayyab said: When Umar ibn al-Khattab came from Mina, he made his camel kneel at al-Abtah, and then he gathered a pile of small stones and cast his cloak over them and dropped to the ground. I am writing this with tears in my eyes. When death comes, it does not wait a moment here or there. What else does a company need to reduce costs and at the same time take the burden off of your employees shoulders? The good news is that happiness and pleasure are also part of this life. Infact, you will lose everything. 8. Aoa! Such is the bounty of Allah, which He bestoweth upon whom He will, and Allah is of infinite bounty. As-salamu alaykum brother. This is killing me. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Did he not fast Ramadaan after he was gone, and pray six thousand rakahs, or such and such a number of rak'ahs, the prayers of one year? Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 2591. al-Ajlooni said in Kashf al-Khafa: its isnaad is hasan. Seeking knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim (male and female). But when I started my graduation a friend(male only) met me.We were very good friends.We both used to understand and help together without any ego.We were like I am everthing for him and he is everything for me and we were like we can't leave if we breakup.But one fine day my friend got married.Till the end of the day his marriage I never know that,how much I am loving him.But after marriage he started ignoring me and I just couldn't bare that.I planned for suicide but I had lot of family responsibilities.I wasn't able to forget him and he keep ignoring me.My parents again played a vital role in my life,may be if they were not with me i could died till now.They started looking for matches and they selected a girl and I got married within 2months. Kindly tell if there's any dua. IT WILL HELP YOU! I want to die. Wishing to die because of problems in this world? Dear Shaji, Can You Make Dua for Patience? Stop thinking too much its alright not to know the answers. Read all the answers given, starting from the beginning. Plz brothers i cnt bare all that help me end this life. but as my sister above has told you, atmost u can pray "oh allah give me death when time is right" meaning when ur are with full imaan. Please give me advice and help me You can If Allah makes it clear to you that marriage to him is good, then He will facilitate that e.g. You saw, what's going on with my life in this Duniya. In office if u don't perform well ur superior will be angry with u it may lead to losing ur job . I want to die . The most important thing is that you get out and go someplace safe. I believe that one day these things will eventually go from me but it still comes to me. I am at risk too but what I want to be helped is that I just wanna stay away from people I am living with now cos they are the reason why I feel this way. ur life is a gift, when you pray 4 death you are trying to get rid of the gift that allah subhanah tala has given you. 69. U need to have patience. If you married her without due consideration of whether she's truly compatible with you, that is something you have to take responsibility for. I want relaxation and freedom from this World. Asalam alikum those bad days and those good days both are tests from ALLAH, TRUST ME shaitaan is making you think like that, all the obligatory namaaz every single day Allah says, He will give what I ask. so one day i need to see him. Dont give up. i dont like being in the dunya at all. My family also doesn't care for me. In other words, the difficulties we deal with in life are temporary. THIS WILL HELP YOU, I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU DO THESE AND STUART IMPROVING ONE DAY Daily Dua Dua For Death in Islam Last updated on July 30th, 2020 by Al Imran 12 Comments. He will be having a streak of blood (like one gets a cut while shaving). No one is in charge of your happiness, except You. If its not possible due to extreme heat which would burn your skin, then the punishment for suicide would be like your whole body in the fire which is multiple times more hot than your gas stove and its for eternity. You need not ask for it, as it will come when the time is set for it, don't worry. Allah knew that you would ask for your qadr to be changed. I also advise you to read the below verses, keeping faith in Allah, make it a habit to read them: 286. Allah, I am sorry for everything..please forgive me..I LOVE YOU. Dua for the deceased. As-salamu alaykum young brother or sister (I do not know if you are male or female). Ayat To Protect From Enemy Must Read.. Nobody has been thoroughly describing what human feelings are. Register here: http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/register/. 3. Please help me I want to die I posted this question earlier but it didn't get posted. PRAY THE OBLIGATORY SALAATS IN MASJID WITH JAMAAT Verily, allah is with the patient. Ibn Rajab (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: This is permissible according to the majority of scholars. My ex boyfriend has leaked our pictures together in which he was kissing my cheek I come from a very strict family and those photos have circulated everywhere all my family and friends. Duas and messages of strength and courage for the non-Muslim family during this time of difficulty are encouraged and also Islamically acceptable. There are many ahaadeeth which indicate that wishing for death in this case is prescribed, such as the following: It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Were it not that it would be too hard for my ummah, I would not have stayed behind from any campaign. He has given the mankind free will to choose btw good or bad. So she is scared from that. May Allah bless you all for your efforts. Please log in and submit your question in a separate post, and we will answer it in turn in shaa Allah. May Allah aid you and relieve you. Is it fine to hurt a person's feelings coz I don't belong to his religion inspite of me telling that I will follow Islam. Time heals almost everything give it time asssalamalikum i dont want to commit suicide.please mei bht tension Mei hu agar koi mere madad krskte haito is nmbr pe msg kro please ye mera wats app no hai.mei poore tension share karunga. Stay busy with things you enjoy. Enlivening the People I am 34 yrs old and unmarried. I put a lot of effort in single work with a lot of duas but it never works. sister, you are going to the doctor and asking him to give you the medicine without telling him what is your problem. One of them was martyred, and the other remained for another year. Ahmd, I'm sorry that you are going through such a hard time. I feel like this too Believe me, it will come sooner than you think anyway. Or search our archives as we have published many posts about lost love. why don't you share your problem here? That ye grieve not for the sake of that which hath escaped you, nor yet exult because of that which hath been given. Assalaam Walekum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu Sister Muslim. 214. Your parents are upset to see you sad, but they would be devastated to lose you - especially to suicide. because i am going depressed each movement .. LIFE IS ONE CHANCE YOU DON'T GET ANOTHER ONE, IF YOU MESSED UP ON THE FIRST ONE, AND ATLEAST YOU GOT THE BIGGEST NIMAH WHICH IS ISLAM, BEING THE HAPPIEST MAN IN THE WORLD AND NOT HAVING IMAN IS THE WORST, AND PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE TALK TO A MUSLIM SCHOLAR PERSONALLY, AND DIRECTLY ABOUT THIS MATTER, LEARN MORE ABOUT ISLAM That way you would be channelling your energy towards a clear purpose, and building a life and identity that goes beyond the loss you have experienced. 2 When his death is martyrdom for the sake of Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted. I don't know how to stop him I have tried to confront him many times but he says that he will continue to do because I rejected him. He will say, By Allah, I have not killed anyone. I didn't reject him but I left him as my family wanted to. ________________ I was feeling really sad for the past few weeks. From your mgs i see you've had a very hard life I dont think its good to wish for death but instead to keep praying Allah gives you what is good of this world and what is good of the hereafter and most importantly to save you from the torments of hell because you will only die the time God proscribed for you to die so theres no need to ask for that because it will never change. I can't relate to any1 or make friends in ,y situations and I'm lost in this wold and want to die. and now because my hands r full of failure I want to discuss my situation if u think there is a fix . IslamicAnswers.com Editor, Asalamu Aleykum, You never know what could happen- you may have done some small deed that saves you. The Prayer of Need (Salat al-Hajah) or Istikhara? Do I believe she'll never enter paradise? Whoso desireth the reward of the world, We bestow on him thereof; and whoso desireth the reward of the Hereafter, thankful. Try to remain positive . I never gave up on struggle until now when its too late. My flock is scattered. 59. Jazakumuallah i think Allah loves me, for he saved me from suiciding myself. Moreover, no one knows what awaits him after death. Dua To Destroy Enemy 1.1. Perhaps the one who wishes for death in order to find relief from the harm that has befallen him will only increase in exhaustion and pain, he does not know. When i asked her to take divorce she said it is not possible too since she didnt wanna break hearts of every family member for her husband's family. He said: No, for youth and its evil have gone, and old age and its goodness have come. I want Allah to conceal my a in a however that guy has exposed everything. We pray that Allah makes you a light and a means for others to enter into Islam also. Is this correct? Help me with the throes of death and the agony of death.'". I just don't know what to do . There is a matter of 'izat' or character - so I want a natural death to save me from tortured life. I have tried everything to get slim but I could not. Please don't give up, though - have faith that Allah will watch over you and guide you to happiness, and never leave you to face these tests alone. Endure and by the will of Allah love will come to you begging. Allah's decisions are always against my will. Therefore, a Muslim may extend sympathies and condolences to the non-Muslim family without making Duas of forgiveness, mercy and peace for the deceased non-Muslim. I know that you have not threatened suicide, but you will find much helpful advice in it Insha'Allah: Also, please see my IslamicSunrays.com website. Death is much harder, than it seems. but when i have started offering my saleh regularly and this was my first ramadan that i offered all my saleh including nafl saleh and kept all my fasts without miss and this has helped me a lot. He had a mission in this life and he strived all his life to accomplish it, even in the face of hardship and loss. in sha allah though im confident Allah will take me soon. Plz somebody help me.
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